To get you started on the right path, here are some tips you may find helpful for establishing that important first impression:

DO relax & be yourself - being overly nervous and anxious can be a turnoff.

DO pay attention to your appearance and personal hygiene - remember that you're  trying to present a positive image.

DO turn off your cell phone - you want to give your dates your full attention.

DO maintain eye contact and show an interest in the person opposite you - even if you don't have that chemistry together, a few minutes of being polite is not too much to ask.

DO fill out your datecard as you go - it will be much easier than if you wait till the end and then try to remember who said what.

DO be honest - the adage that honesty is the best policy is especially important when wanting to make a good first impression.

DO vary your questions - asking the same questions, like “what do you do for a living” can be too repetitive and boring after a few dates. Try to ask questions that will help you get to know that person as an individual. (Refer to Dating Questions.)

DO play it safe when you meet up afterwards - it's a good idea to meet in a public place or tell a friend where you are going.

DON'T drink heavily before or during an event - it's a fast way for someone to lose interest in you.

DON'T overdo it when it comes to things like perfume, cologne and jewelry - less is more!

DON'T swear excessively - it usually isn't seen as an attractive quality.

DON'T touch - be conscious of someone's “personal space”.

DON'T talk negatively about other people, especially ex partners - it's a small world and you never know if you are talking about their friend or relative.

DON'T have unreal expectations - speed dating is a fun night out and can be a wonderful way to meet someone, but it may not necessarily lead to a long term relationship or marriage.

DON'T ask sexually explicit questions, use crude language or say anything that could be interpreted as sexually threatening or harassment.

DON'T talk too fast - it may make it difficult for your date to follow what you are trying to say. But talking too slow can also be a problem because it can make you sound boring.

DON'T chew gum – popping, smacking, or chewing with your mouth open may be disruptive and unappealing to your date.